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Marriage Magic: Spice Up Your Relationship with a Splash of Faith!



Hey there, lovebirds! Let’s be real—keeping the spark alive in a marriage takes work. After the honeymoon phase, life can start throwing all sorts of curveballs: from work stress to family obligations, or just the general grind of everyday life. It’s easy to get lost in the routine, to let things slide, and to miss out on the little moments that once made your relationship feel magical.


But here’s the good news: you don’t have to let the spark fizzle. In fact, adding a splash of faith can bring a whole new depth and vibrancy to your relationship. Faith isn’t just something we turn to in tough times—it’s a source of joy, purpose, and connection that can bring life back into your marriage, even on the most ordinary of days. Let’s dive into some real, down-to-earth ways to bring a little more faith and magic into your marriage.


1. Prioritize Prayer Together: Your “Power Hour”

Let’s start with something simple, yet incredibly powerful: prayer. Taking even a few minutes a day to pray together can be transformative. Think of it as your “power hour” (or power five minutes!) where you’re not just talking to each other, but talking to God together. It’s amazing how prayer can pull you both out of whatever stress or petty grievances are hanging around and bring your focus back to what matters most.

It doesn’t have to be formal or fancy—just hold hands, thank God for each other, and share what’s on your hearts. Praying together reminds you both that you’re not alone in this journey, and that there’s a higher power guiding and supporting you.


Tip: Make it a nightly ritual, even if it’s just a quick prayer before bed. And don’t be afraid to keep it real. Praying together means sharing the good, the bad, and the honest parts of life.


2. Date Night with a Purpose

Sure, everyone talks about date night—but what about date night with a little extra meaning? Plan a date that helps you both reconnect not only with each other but with your faith. You could attend a faith-based event together, have a cozy night in where you watch a meaningful movie, or read a devotional together that sparks deep conversation.


It’s amazing how these little changes in your usual routine can bring you closer and create a sense of unity. And don’t worry if things aren’t “perfect.” Remember, it’s about the experience and connection, not about the logistics.


Tip: Pick one night a month where you do something faith-focused for your date. It could be something as simple as cooking a meal together, sharing what you’re grateful for, and making it a time to be fully present with each other.


3. Forgive (And Mean It)

Forgiveness sounds simple, but it’s one of the hardest things to genuinely practice in marriage. We all mess up. Maybe it’s snapping at your partner during a stressful day or accidentally forgetting something important. Holding onto grudges, even small ones, can chip away at the foundation of your relationship.

This is where faith comes in strong. When we approach forgiveness through the lens of faith, it becomes less about who was “right” and more about letting go of resentment and embracing love. Remember, forgiveness isn’t about excusing behavior—it’s about giving each other grace and focusing on moving forward.


Tip: Next time you’re feeling frustrated, try praying about it before you talk about it. This can help you approach the situation with a softer heart and a more compassionate perspective.


4. Serve Together: “Love in Action”

One of the most beautiful ways to grow together as a couple is through service. When you’re focused on helping others, it puts your own struggles and disagreements into perspective. Serving together—whether it’s volunteering, supporting a cause, or helping a friend—deepens your connection as you focus on something beyond yourselves.


Serving together is a way to live out your love and values in a tangible way. It’s not just about what you say to each other but about what you do together as a team.


Tip: Find a cause or activity you’re both passionate about. It could be anything from working at a local food bank to joining a community cleanup. Make it a regular habit, and watch how it strengthens your bond.


5. Practice Gratitude (Even on the Rough Days)

Let’s face it, marriage has its tough days. Some days you might just feel off, or you’re both exhausted, or things just aren’t clicking. Practicing gratitude can be a game-changer, especially when times get rough. It’s easy to focus on what’s annoying or frustrating; it takes intention to focus on what’s good.


Take a few minutes each day to think about what you appreciate about your spouse. Maybe it’s something small, like how they make your coffee in the morning or how they know just what to say when you’re feeling down. Focusing on the positives can help shift your mindset and remind you why you fell in love in the first place.


Tip: Start a gratitude journal where you jot down one thing each day that you’re grateful for about each other. Share it at the end of the month—it’s a great way to reconnect and celebrate the good in your relationship.


6. Lean on Faith in the Hard Times

Marriage is a journey, and like any journey, it has its ups and downs. Maybe you’re going through a rough patch, dealing with financial stress, or facing an unexpected challenge. This is when faith truly shines. Faith gives you the strength to face challenges together, knowing that there’s hope even in the hardest times.

When you bring your struggles to God together, it lightens the burden. It reminds you that, no matter what, you’re both on the same team, and there’s a bigger plan at work.


Tip: If you’re going through a hard season, don’t hesitate to reach out for support. Seek out trusted friends, counselors, or mentors who can help you both keep faith at the center of your journey.


7. Embrace the Imperfections and Laugh Together

Let’s be honest—no marriage is perfect, and that’s okay! Sometimes the best thing you can do is embrace the imperfections and just laugh. Marriage is full of moments that are messy, silly, and unexpected. Laughter is a gift that can lighten the heaviest of days and bring joy back into the relationship.


When you can laugh together, you’re reminded that marriage doesn’t have to be all serious and “perfect.” It’s a journey meant to be enjoyed. Embrace the quirks, let go of the need to have everything “just right,” and have fun together.

Tip: Find humor in the little things. Whether it’s an inside joke, a silly dance party in the kitchen, or a random memory that makes you both laugh, enjoy the small, joyful moments that make your relationship uniquely yours.


Bringing It All Together: Love, Laughter, and Faith

Marriage isn’t easy, but it’s one of the most rewarding journeys you’ll ever take. By weaving a little faith into the fabric of your relationship, you can strengthen your bond, find deeper purpose, and rediscover the magic that brought you together in the first place. It’s about more than just the big moments—it’s the everyday acts of love, kindness, and connection that keep your marriage thriving.


So here’s to spicing things up with a splash of faith! Whether it’s through prayer, forgiveness, gratitude, or laughter, remember that faith can be the foundation that helps your love grow stronger, deeper, and more fulfilling with each passing year.

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With this guide, along with my book "Living with a Monster," I hope to help couples align their beliefs and create a space to flourish. On the other side of conflict is deeper intimacy. Start setting goals together, have those tough conversations, and watch big things happen in your relationship.

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